Together for 11+ years and still struggle with urges...

Its our brains , I struggle with it , I have a very beautiful gf , but shes pushed my self confidence so high that its like I became a magnet to hot women. Its horrible because I never really did the whole collage parties etc. Basically i feel like im missing out. But I could never hurt her in that way, Theres a study done on rats about how a male will keep sexually active if the females are constantly changed , however when there is only the single female the male seems to not want to reproduce after a while. We all know this feeling I think , Beginning of a relationship sexually is usually way more exciting and rewarding than lets say 2 years down the line. Kinda wish I just wasnt attrected to any other woman ever, it would be such a burden off my chest. Btw ive never cheated!

Jesus, are you 12 or something, OP? OF COURSE you don't stop being attracted to other people, even if you are in love with someone. That's the difference between lust and love. As the saying goes, "its fine to look at other menu's, as long as you go home to eat"

BS, last 13years I never felt romantic love towards any other than my SO, you light confuse it with lust

Idk what love is,but I have freedom,money and pizza, isn't it pretty much the same?

And vice versa. Sometimes your s/o doesn’t want you the way other women do.

This took you years? Daamn.

U gay.

except they choose your best friend

i love my queen so much that other girls are all ugly to me, because none of them is like my queen, theyre all so gross compared to my queen who is perfect in every way

And then OP discovered open relationship. The end?