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noyourewrong

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brocobroly

plot twist: with your cousin

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chtalker

No, it takes certain people

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crysisinc

Did option 2 for 5 unhappy years,now happy in option 1

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wutwutinthabut

I have it. My gf is kinda an introvert. A little shy. But in bed I can do whatever I want with her + she likes the (experimental) sex.

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the_studo

You gotta find the one. Who has same energy and kinkyness as you. It's hard, but not impossible

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borix1234

No, definitely impossible to have both at the same time.

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socialdutch

It's the dilemma that makes men doubt about relationships :)

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eiggamad

Uh no I need both.

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miratellia

I'm very vanilla myself, but I have a fascination with kink and all the bizarre things that people get off on, so I've read a lot. The kink community say it's very possible, so long as you're both into the same thing. The more niche your kink, the harder to find a match.

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