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thegingin

Girl on Tinder here : yes we do get hundreds of matches, so it can be a bit "boring" to always have the same conversation (how are you, what do you do for a living, what are your centers of interest,...), just try to be a bit different when you first text them, with a joke, something interesting you saw on their pictures, ask a question about something she said she liked in her bio,... To catch her attention, and then try to keep the conversation interesting (although some people just don't have any conversation, same problem with some guys) Hope this helps, Good luck mate!

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bactarus

Me but I'm a married dude with a mustache

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graavel

Be bold, be cocky, be funny, they will reply

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hellemanspieter

Just keep trying dude. Ignore all profiles that clearly don't have any effort put into them and focus on the real ones. I met my gf on tinder so it's definitely possible

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potato_mesh

I'm lucky to have certain perks on my side which apparently brings me quite a lot of matches. Over the course I've had some 1500 likes, 100 matches, 50 actual conversations, and 12 dates. However, already the fact that only about half of the actual *matches* even bother to reply, even if I always begin the conversation with a genuinely personalized message, tells a lot about the dynamics. (I eventually ended up uninstalling the app.)

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claraestrada

go for the other 10%. might find a gem in there

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denises3391

Yes but they aren't on tinder

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cornballs

There's other apps for dating. Void the main ones. They're for people looking for attention or just sex.

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stephanpfeiffe

Try OKCupid , friends of mine are „using“ it, meaning once and happy after till so far. No personal experience thou, met my girl dancing. *shuffles away

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jeroenblep

glad u discovered this in time

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