Struggeling with finding an alternative to my current job, suddenly cleaning and cooking doesn't seem that bad

You need to have a serious conversation with your husband. He will be taking on the bulk of the pressure to financially provide if you quit working. No use a clean house if you’re both too stressed about money. If you do stay home, support your husband in every way.

It's a real shame someone raised you such that you think cleaning/cooking is an inferior task and is smthng u can avoid if u work a full time job.

Cleaning and cooking aren’t the issues of being a housewife. But it makes you financially dependant. And if you wanna buy something for whatever reason you need to justify yourself or ask for permission. Not even thinking about what happens it you break up. Then you’re suddenly sitting there without money to live on.

While becoming a house wife is a valid option, you need to think far - what will happen in 2 years when you’re sick and tired of only cleaning and cooking, what happens when you simply get bored of this? Finding a good job will be a much more difficult task from a housewife standpoint than from a working woman standpoint, since in the meantime you won’t gain experience and you won’t learn, yet you will age and other women you’re age will have an advantage over you. So I’m not saying that you shouldn’t become a housewife, but you must think if that’s really the best thing for you

Man id love to be a house husband

I wish my gf made enough for both so I could do that, oof

The only general downside of being a housewife that later down the line it will be harder to find jobs, if you decide to go for that again. Other than that its allpersonal, just have a long thoughtful conversation with your partner and close friends who know your married dynamics. It can have bad consequences later down the line if it simply does not fit, lack of a better word, chemistry of you guys

That's right dumb bitch, just give this morons more proofs women are useless leaches. We realy need that. It's not like they hate us all enough already. I hope you become housewife. Then let's see if you like asking your husband for money every day for smallest stuff. Idiot.

Please don't do the only a housewife thing. It might seem to work,he might say ok to it,but he will slowly hate it from within because a second income does come handy, especially with kids expenses etc. Eventually you would be like "but you said you were ok with it" and he would be like "well I didn't know it would mean I can't afford xyz because we have to save up for abc" Just take a break and start afresh at a place with less workload, even if pay is a bit less. If household chores are putting more load on you, discuss with hubby.

yeah taking care of the house is much easier than basically any job. but you can make money doing that as well, being a janitor.