Its not like that. It you're putting efforts and it doesn't work then it either means you're putting them for the wrong people or you're putting wrong efforts. Maybe it could be your personality, but again why do you care? You shouldn't change yourself to suit someone else. Be yourself, there is definitely someone out there looking for someone like you.
Friendships should come naturally. And unless you re an outright asshole or a douche there s probably nothing wrong with you. I know being vulnerable is hard, but it’s the only way we make connections
how about making friends online first :) where you can find out what is that people dont like about you :) here on 9gag we will tell you truthfully xD so you probably hella ugly or annoying
Why should they make an effort to befriend you? Friendship and pretty much any kind of relationships are like farting. If you need to make an effort, it's probably shit
You really need to read this book. You are trying to please people, you are not giving people a reason to like you, be your self: No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert A. Glover
Well hello xD
That and my face don't forget the face
It's been a long path for me. But in short, you need to love yourself first. Take care of YOU. When this is done, or at least well on its way, trust me, people will notice.
Sounds like you're a downer and hate on yourself. That naturally pushes people away and makes you seem weird.
Going out more by yourself.