Dam, you must be new to this.
Ok, so there's actually a meme for this: Also: matches are worthless, IRL-dates is the point at which you really met her and the easiest point to score.
Yeah, welcome to Tinder. Where they match you but then they wont talk to you or talk to you but show no interest in you. You need to understand that not all of them are there to find somebody. In fact, most of them arent. Some just wants attention boost, some just Instagram followers, some just sex, some are just bored etc. In fact, when you get to know them, you realize that most of them arent really ready to date and why they are single in the first place. Trying to find something meaningful there is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I am not saying that to discourage you, just saying to lower your expectations there.
Don't take it personal, most women arent on tinder to date. Most of them are on there to get matches to show off to their friends. You deserve love my friend, don't give up
you guys have matches?
Same reason I read the menu of several restaurants before deciding on one. Just because I’m hungry and slightly interested in your restaurant, it doesn’t mean I will eat there.
So, I very recently opened bumble and I am guilty of doing this. I think I took the approach of the law of large numbers so I swipe right for every guy I found generally attractive. Then according to the matches I have that day I talk to the one or two guy's whose profiles I like the most. Also, invest some time on creating a good profile. I won't be lying, I don't swipe right on people I don't find attractive but I mostly innitiate conversation with the guys that had interesting and compatible stuff in their profiles.
There are a few reasons for this, my padawan: - Too many fake / bot / unused profiles in Tinder - 90% (or more) of the girls who REALLY use Tinder, put their ig so YOU can start the conversation, so they don't even have the trouble to go after guys - The few girls who swipe right on guys only do it for the dopamine injection, so they can feel that they are wanted too So yeah, Tinder is an app for girls or 8.5+ men. Otherwise, you'll only get real matches from 6 "ranked" or less "ranked" girls. I'm sorry if I sound shallow, but I'm just telling you how many years Tinder has taught humanity over time. You can find all this information on google.
Pretty sure girls treat tinder like pokemon. They are only going to use a few but have many collected and won't release them.
I got very lucky on my first try, first day, first match, in the first hour, we ended up being together, got our kiss on our first date, I'm her first...of everything,...we broke up on our first month..lul...It's just that we can't be together. we love each other