Calling yourself a meme lord is like saying that your mom thinks you are sexy. Even if it's true, it's awkward and embarrassing for the other party.
Don't worry, the only thing she's insecure about is if she's able to take massive dick if yours.
Having a sense of humour gets you thru almost everything. Been going strong with female person thirty years myself.
I prefer masking by sending passive aggressive memes I made myself