Well, if they aen't also physically attracted to you, then that's it. There's your answer.
People thinking that "I want someone like you, but not you" is somehow flawed
Ever thought this line is just used to try avoid hurting someones feelings?
1. Talk about your feelings with a woman, but don't sound like a crybaby over everything; 2. Flirt with her rather than talking with her as if you were a friend. (you don't want her to be your friend so why would you not?); 3. Work on your outwards appearance by exercising and having some basic hygiene (shaving or trimming might help too); 4. Wear some cologne and learn how to cook. Smell and taste are the most deciding factors next to physical appearance, in attracting a long term partner. Have fun and goodluck
Sorry to say this but it you were good looking you would never post something like this. Either work on your looks or be ready to post the same “nice guy” post every week for the rest of your life.
Never share your feelings with a woman. They are not capable of dealing with men's problems and will only make you look like a bish in her eyes.
Maybe you tell us more about yourself and we try to analyze the issue?
looks matter. deal with it